Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Why Men Fall Asleep right after sex..........


Now ladies, there are different reasons as to why this happens.  My opinion is that they are either hella tired after a long day at work and the sex just wore him out.  He just finished eating your good ass dinner and let's face it, good food plus sex equals comatose state.  Or....you may have that GOOD GOOD and it knocks him the hell out, lol:)  I'm just saying.....


With that being said I did a little research and this is what I came up with:


 David McKenzie, a sex therapist in Vancouver says that “A man’s body chemistry changes after orgasm". "The biochemical prolactin is released, physically altering his body and making him very tired.” In contrast, women may not orgasm every time they have sex. So, after a woman finishes making love to her man, she may still be semi-aroused and have the energy to talk about love and life while he’s drifting off to dreamland.




Mark Leyner and Billy Goldberg, M.D., authors of Why Do Men Fall Asleep After Sex?, offer an additional biological explanation: “It is thought that exertion during sex and after climax depletes the muscles of energy-producing glycogen. This leaves men feeling sleepy. Since men have more muscle mass than women, men become more tired after sex.” Leyner and Goldberg state that there is little direct evidence to explain men falling asleep, though, after orgasm, the chemicals oxytocin, prolactin, gamma amino butyric acid (GABA) and endorphins all contribute to that “roll over and snore” feeling.


Mmmmmm...Although, this was very informative, after reading this all I have to say is listen up-Yapping after sex is not for everyone!  Don't get me wrong a little pillow talk after love making is great.  Yet, that's exactly what it should be a "little" folks are tired and sometimes you just wanna hold each other for a few mins and not say a word.  Or, there are times you do wanna talk for a bit, to each is own, everyone is different.  You and your partner should know each other's likes and dislikes.  Some couples like to talk for a sec, just lay there, listen to music or hold one another.  Other couples may have a certain routine they do- "baby we gonna cuddle for about 5-10mins, say good night, roll over on your side of the bed and then lights out".  That's perfectly normal, and if it works for ya'll,  sweet!  Just don't over do it ladies...it's not a good look:)


Ciao,


L

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Lol, I am so with you Lolly! My man and I do that all the time-we have a routine. Have some bomb ass sex, hold each other for 10 mins and say good night and have our own space in the space, lol. Good post!

Kim-Philly

Anonymous said...

Man when that pussy is good, it's a TKO!!! My girl stay doing it to me but, I'm not gonna front, it feels good to hold her for a few then head to sleep. Not soft fellas but when you in love and the sex is great you actually want to hold your lady for a bit! Just keeping it 100.

Mike J.-Cali

Anonymous said...

TRUE FUCKING STORY-GOOD POST L!

Kareem